.that outstanding leaders go out of the way to boost the self-esteem
of their personnel. If people believe in themselves it's
amazing what they can accomplish.
Sam Walton said that, and he was right.
If you direct the activities of others, have you given them
a compliment today? Have you told them how valuable they are?
If they are not valuable, why do you have them working
for you? If they are, why would you not tell them?
Not once a year, at evaluation time.
Right now. Today. And often.
Love, Your Friend....
neale
Saturday, September 18, 2010
nurish your soul
that the time has come for you to nourish your soul.
When was the last time that you swam naked?
Or sang in the shower? Or blew bubbles?
Or held a puppy? Or kissed a baby?
Or made love all Sunday afternoon?
Or prayed really softly, not from need, but from love?
Has it been a while?
Then hurry. Do it.
Hurry.
This is life that is going by...
Love, Your Friend....
neale
When was the last time that you swam naked?
Or sang in the shower? Or blew bubbles?
Or held a puppy? Or kissed a baby?
Or made love all Sunday afternoon?
Or prayed really softly, not from need, but from love?
Has it been a while?
Then hurry. Do it.
Hurry.
This is life that is going by...
Love, Your Friend....
neale
you do not do anything against you own will
.that no one does anything they do not want to do.
You always have a reason--and usually, a pretty good one--
for doing what you are doing and choosing what you are
choosing. Be careful not to convince yourself that you are
doing something against your will. Such a thing is impossible.
Therefore, be honest with yourself as to why you are choosing
to do a particular thing. Then, do it gladly, knowing that you
are always getting to do what you want. The statement "I have
no choice" is a lie. You can choose. You simply do not prefer
the alternatives available to you, for whatever reason. So you
select the outcome that you most prefer. Isn't that power?
Love, Your Friend....
neale
You always have a reason--and usually, a pretty good one--
for doing what you are doing and choosing what you are
choosing. Be careful not to convince yourself that you are
doing something against your will. Such a thing is impossible.
Therefore, be honest with yourself as to why you are choosing
to do a particular thing. Then, do it gladly, knowing that you
are always getting to do what you want. The statement "I have
no choice" is a lie. You can choose. You simply do not prefer
the alternatives available to you, for whatever reason. So you
select the outcome that you most prefer. Isn't that power?
Love, Your Friend....
neale
get out of victimhood
.that nobody needs your help.
I know, I know...this is a difficult one. But it is true. Yet
this does not mean no one wants your help, or that noone
could use your help. It simply means the thought that another
Aspect of Divinity is powerless without you is inaccurate.
Do not do something, therefore, because you think someone
else needs you. That only builds resentment. Do whatever
you do as a means of deciding, declaring, creating, and
experiencing who you are--and who you choose to be. Then
you will never feel victimized, powerless, or without choice.
Yes? You see how simple it all is? Get out of victimhood.
Love, Your Friend....
neale
I know, I know...this is a difficult one. But it is true. Yet
this does not mean no one wants your help, or that noone
could use your help. It simply means the thought that another
Aspect of Divinity is powerless without you is inaccurate.
Do not do something, therefore, because you think someone
else needs you. That only builds resentment. Do whatever
you do as a means of deciding, declaring, creating, and
experiencing who you are--and who you choose to be. Then
you will never feel victimized, powerless, or without choice.
Yes? You see how simple it all is? Get out of victimhood.
Love, Your Friend....
neale
stop telling yourself you cant
that the greatest enemy of individual freedom is the
individual himself.
Saul Alinsky said that, and he was right. In almost every
case, nothing is stopping you, nothing is holding you back
but your own thoughts about yourself and about "how life is."
Your personal freedom to experience yourself and life
as you wish is not being limited. Step into your choices
and stop telling yourself that you can't, when what you
really mean is that you don't want other people to feel the
way you think that are going to feel when they see you making
the choices you really want to make. Got it?
Love, Your Friend....
neale
individual himself.
Saul Alinsky said that, and he was right. In almost every
case, nothing is stopping you, nothing is holding you back
but your own thoughts about yourself and about "how life is."
Your personal freedom to experience yourself and life
as you wish is not being limited. Step into your choices
and stop telling yourself that you can't, when what you
really mean is that you don't want other people to feel the
way you think that are going to feel when they see you making
the choices you really want to make. Got it?
Love, Your Friend....
neale
you are deeply loved
...that you are deeply loved by God.
Do you know that? I mean, do you really know that?
Because if you do, you will move through life without
fear. You will know that only Perfection can occur.
Yes, yes, I know, sometimes the things that occur don't
look perfect...but that is only a matter of perspective.
Because you can't see Perfection does not mean it is not
there. Give it Time. It will show itself for sure. Then you
will again smile at God's love...and how it plays out.
For now, trust that it will. Always. And in all ways. I
would not tell you this were it not true.
Love, Your Friend....
neale
Do you know that? I mean, do you really know that?
Because if you do, you will move through life without
fear. You will know that only Perfection can occur.
Yes, yes, I know, sometimes the things that occur don't
look perfect...but that is only a matter of perspective.
Because you can't see Perfection does not mean it is not
there. Give it Time. It will show itself for sure. Then you
will again smile at God's love...and how it plays out.
For now, trust that it will. Always. And in all ways. I
would not tell you this were it not true.
Love, Your Friend....
neale
follow your passion
...that happiness, that grand mistress of the ceremonies in the dance of life,
impels us through all its mazes and meandering, but leads none of us by
the same route.
Charles Caleb Colton said that, and he was right. Therefore, since there is no One Way to find happiness, why not find it the way that appeals most to you? Why not follow your passion --- even if others tell you that you are crazy for trying it?
Is someone telling you that now? Don't listen. Don't listen to that! The voice of caution knows nothing of real joy. What joy is there is doing what there was no doubt you could do? Where's the excitement in that? Hey, try something that you could fail at. Now that's living.
Love, Your Friend....
neale
impels us through all its mazes and meandering, but leads none of us by
the same route.
Charles Caleb Colton said that, and he was right. Therefore, since there is no One Way to find happiness, why not find it the way that appeals most to you? Why not follow your passion --- even if others tell you that you are crazy for trying it?
Is someone telling you that now? Don't listen. Don't listen to that! The voice of caution knows nothing of real joy. What joy is there is doing what there was no doubt you could do? Where's the excitement in that? Hey, try something that you could fail at. Now that's living.
Love, Your Friend....
neale
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